Isifundo lapha ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kuholela ekuzethembeni, futhi ukuzethemba kuholela empumelelweni. Ubanjwe ngesandlaamasaha ayindilingavula amathuba amaningi okuthuthukisa ikhaya. Yingakho beyithuluzi elinamandla kwezohwebo. Iqhinga ukufika esinqumweni esifanele mayelana nokukhetha kwamathuluzi njengomninikhaya. Ngikholelwa ukuthi esinye sezizathu ezenza amasaha ayindilinga abanjwe ngesandla awathandwa kahle emibuthanweni yokuzenzela ukuthi abanikazi bezindlu abaningi bakhetha amasaha ashibhile, ajwayele izinkinga. Uma ucabanga ukuthi udinga isaha eliyindilinga, udinga elihle. Futhi lokhu kusho okungaphezu nje kwemodeli yezomnotho.

Kungakhathalekile ukuthi ukhetha luphi uhlobo lwesaha, izindleko zethuluzi ziyakhohlwa isikhathi eside ngemuva kokuthi ikhwalithi iqhubeka nokujatshulelwa. Gqoka izibuko zokuphepha kanye nokuvikela izindlebe lapho usebenzisa isaha, thatha isikhathi sakho ngokusikwa ngakunye futhi ube nomunye umuntu obambe ucezu lwakho lokusebenza kokuthile okuqinile kuyilapho uthola ikhono ngokusikeka kwakho okumbalwa kokuqala. Leyo yindlela uNorm ayithathile futhi manje usenophahla olusha oluqinile nokuzethemba okukhulu.